As Carrie Bradshaw asserts in
the popular series Sex and the City,
"the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with
yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with
yourself". There are two simples steps in which not only can you find out
how to get on well with yourself but also how to be happy with yourself. Do you
dare to discover how get it?
First of all, you must love yourself before you can be loved.
Have you ever tried looking yourself in yours bedroom´s mirror every morning
before leaving home and drawing a smile on your face? I guess if you do it and
you check your body having in mind it´s one of the greatest gifts the life has
given you, you are sure to feel really happy of inhabit it.
Secondly,
but not less important, you have to overcome yourself every day. Obviously, it´s nice to have
idols. Nevertheless, it´s better to forget about comparisons with others and set
your own goals due to the fact win is to overcome others, victory is to
overcome yourself. Setting a viable challenge every month and reaching it will
make you improve yourself and feel more confident. So, remember, it is
important to stop comparing yourself with others because, this way, you will
discover your own strengths.
Do you dare to try it? Do you
dare to be happy with yourself? To be your best friend?
It's an interesting point of view. I have remembered Oscar Wilde's quote: "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." I think it's necessary to love onesefl if we wont to love others and have been loved by them.
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